Today is Day 14 of isolation. Yeah, we survived and more than survived, we thrived. We can now join the rest of the world in the stay at home edict, but mentally we are currently free of the Covid-19 virus and now need to focus on staying healthy. It is a very interesting time to be arriving home and setting up home again. We are still in Wichita Kansas with Brian and Beth and so grateful for the time we have had here. They made many sacrifices to have us in their home. They are both working from home and taking care of all of our needs. We have enjoyed our time with William and Nora and I have helped with the meal preparations. We have not decided what day to return to Texas - we feel a little less vulnerable here in Kansas. What we do know is that staying in and being responsible citizens will and is making a difference. We know that obedience brings the blessings of Heaven. So, we are trying to figure out how that obedience fits into our need to return home and take care of the needs there.
We have had the past 11 days to ponder and reflect on the past two weeks. So much has been going through our minds of what we left behind and what lies ahead for us. I will recap a few things to finish out our story.
Our last Friday, when we drove to Salzburg and picked up all of the mail and packages, we also received a new Mission tie and scarf for the Elders and Sisters respectively. Elder Grimmett was especially glad to have this tie with the mission emblem on it. The Elder's all wore them on Saturday to the train station when they sent Elder Kroes home to Germany.
Saturday was our flight home. This is what I saw of Paris France
I was not happy at first that we would be flying through Paris. It is not known for being the most safe place in the World. It is a very large airport with a very interesting design of many buildings connected by underground walkways and trams. It was actually a very nice airport and we especially were so appreciative of the service on Air France. We thought it would be so crowded on the flights and not a very good experience. To our surprise, the flight from Vienna to Paris was not full and we had an extra seat and the employees were very nice. I was selected for extra security when we boarded the plane for Atlanta, but that is something I am used to. The countryside around Paris was so different from Germany and Austria. The buildings and houses are unique to France and it was neat to see the difference. When we boarded the Air France 777, Russ was happy as it is one of his favorite planes. Again, we were expecting to be at the very back of the plane and very crowded. We were going on pure adrenaline at this point and hoping to get a few hours
of sleep. We were given the whole row and there were a lot of extra seats in the very back where we were. It was quiet and such a good flight. They served really nice food and we enjoyed the tender mercy we were given under the circumstances. The plane had the camera that we could watch of the flight and that was fun to watch as we took off and then landed. I decided to photograph the landing in Atlanta. Well - until we had the scariest landing ever. Everyone in our section was getting anxious to be on US soil and you could feel the excitement. I was filming and on touchdown something went wrong and we started sliding to the edge of the runway and then the pilot swerved the other way to offset the problem. We then went to the other side and he had to correct again. It felt like going down a freeway and hitting a patch of black ice and having to correct the car to stay on the road until you could get traction (yes, I have experienced this). I am thinking, this is not how I want to end this crazy experience. Thankfully, they were able to get control and we arrived safely. Needless to say, the recording of the event was cut short as I was holding on for dear life and had hurt my wrist on the seat in front of me. Again, always an adventure!
As I mentioned last week, we were picked up at DFW by our son, Joshua and went to his home to say hello to our 3 grandsons (they were OK with no hugging) and Julie had made some wonderful pie for Pi-day and then we went to the Sheraton Hotel in Arlington. We were grateful for the time to just rest and have some quiet to plan the next few weeks. We enjoyed the time there as it was like having the whole Hotel to ourselves - only a hand full of guests. It was eerie looking out at the Six Flags Parking Lot and seeing it empty on a Spring Break weekend. It was interesting being on the 16th floor and having a wonderful view of Arlington and just watching the emptiness and low traffic flow. We were anxious to finalize the purchase of the car Josh had found for us on Monday morning and get on the road for Wichita Kansas. After a lot of sleeping and catching up, we were up early, around 6 am and just stayed in bed and talked and planned for the day and week.
I can only stay in bed so long and my body says, time to move. I got up and Russ sat up on the side of the bed and went to get off the bed and felt something snap and suddenly he was seeing double and had to close his eyes to not feel the effects of what was happening. He tried to stand up and had no balance. He then tried to lay back down but that made it worse so I got him into the chair so he could sit. I tried to do a few things that might help and nothing was working. He said, just let me sit here for a little bit to see if it goes away. I then decided I better get ready for the day, not knowing what was ahead. I hurried and got dressed and then I called Josh and asked if he could come and help me. I went into the bathroom and said a prayer. I prayed that I would know what to do and what I needed to do to make him comfortable. I was calm and felt a peace come over me. At this point Russ needed to go to the bathroom and I did not know how I would get him there. Josh said he was 30 minutes away in Fort Worth and he would come as soon as he could. I figured out there was an office chair on wheels that if I could get him on it I could roll him to the bathroom. So I did that - not a pretty sight but we made it to the bathroom - thank heavens for wide doors. Josh called back and said he had done some research and that I needed to call 911. He was very stern and said if I could not handle calling, he would. I assured him I would call. I called and they asked all of the standard questions except they added, "have you traveled outside of the US in the last month?" I told them yes, but that his symptoms were not that of the Covid-19 virus. They said the ambulance was on the way and we hung up. We waited and waited. I heard them pull up outside and I looked out the window and saw the fire truck and the ambulance but no one was moving or coming in. I finally got a phone call from them and they said they did not want to come up because we had just come from Europe. I told them we were in a self isolation and that we were not sick. He hung up and we waited. I received another phone call and more questions. I could now hear my son Josh in the background. He had arrived and they would not let him come up to the room. Needless to say, I was now getting a little panicked as precious time was passing without Russ getting needed treatment.
They finally got the OK from supervisors to come up to the room. They came and did several tests including an EKG. All of his vital signs were good, but he still could not open his eyes and did not have balance to walk. They were trying to figure out how to get him on the stretcher and I told them about the office chair with wheels. They put him in the chair and used it like a wheel chair as I had done and wheeled him out into the hall and put him on the gurney. Josh was finally allowed up and helped me get all of our bags and things on a luggage cart and we left. I checked out of the Hotel and they told me that Russ was stable and that they would load him in Josh's van and then I would take him to the hospital. They said there was nothing more they could do but to call if anything happened on the way to the hospital. Wow! I was feeling a big responsibility but knew I could do it. Josh followed me in his car. When we arrived at the hospital emergency room, before they would let anyone enter they asked the five questions, the first being, "have you been out of the country in the past month. I told them yes and that my husband was in the car and needed immediate attention. They gave me a mask and another to put on Russ. I waited for them to get him and then the lady looked at me and said, "are you going to bring him in?" I told her he could not walk and I needed help. They finally acted quickly and took him right in. Once inside they had him in for a Cat scan immediately and shortly after that an MRI. Once the Doctor looked at him they started moving very quickly. At this point Russ was getting sick from all of the movement and it was difficult for him having all of the tests. They gave him some medicine to help and it did. So after many hours in the ER and the diagnosis of a Stroke, he was admitted to the hospital. It took awhile to get a room and we were very grateful when he finally could get a little rest and settled in. I had not eaten since noon on Sunday and I was feeling it. My daughter Emily contacted a dear friend, Janessa and asked if she would bring me a smoothie. It was just what I needed to get me through the day. The nurse was so nice when she brought it into me. They did not let Janessa come into the room.
I was not sure what I was going to do for the night, but when we got to the room it had a nice couch for sleeping. Josh and Julie came to visit and then took me to their house so I could get some blankets and some dinner. It was nice to get away for just about 30 minutes. They bandaged one of his eyes and that helped him to be able to open the other eye and see. He had a restful night and we were grateful. Tuesday was an amazing day as he continued to recover and regain his eyesight and balance. By noon they took off the eye bandage and he could see clearly. He was able to get out of bed and walk to the bathroom with a little help. By the afternoon he worked with the physical and occupational therapists and he was able to walk up the stairs faster than the therapist. We were witnessing a miracle. The Doctor said they wanted to keep him another day to make sure everything was OK and to make sure all of the medications were working.
Sister Brown, our Presidents wife sent a message she wanted us to call. We were able to call her and it was so good to talk with her and feel their love for us. Russ was feeling good by this time and we knew that it was a tender mercy that all of this was happening. We know that many prayers were offered in his behalf and it was so appreciated. One of the nice advantages of social media in getting the word out so others can pray for you. We felt peace and comfort and love.
In the meantime, I still needed to sign the papers for our new car. Josh had arranged for us to go at 1:00 and take care of it. The nurses just told me to wear the mask when I went out of the room. I did that and I left with Josh to go get the car.
Knowing I was in a 14 day isolation, I was trying to be very careful and do what I had been asked. 'We went and all went well. I went to Josh's house and let the boys see the car, went through a drive-through to get some lunch and returned to the hospital. When I got there they asked me the five questions again and said I could not go in the hospital. I explained that I had been there for a day and a half and that my husband was in the hospital. They said things had changed since yesterday and that I could not come in. It took about 45 minutes of phone calls to several people and they finally let me in. I fully understand their need for caution. I had the mask on and had tried to take all of the precautions they had asked for. I would not have left the hospital if I thought they would not let me back in. It all worked out. Later we found out that the first Covid-19 patient had been admitted that day and new protocols were in place.
Russ was released about 1:00 on Wednesday and we stopped to say good-bye to Josh and his family and to check on our house. We then left for Wichita Kansas and arrived about 9:00 pm. It took us a little longer to drive there, but Russ had been on IV's for 2 1/2 days and we had to stop a lot on the way there.
We are so grateful we have been able to spend the remaining days of isolation with Brian and Beth in Kansas. They purchased a home in November and we were glad to come and see it. We have our own little place in the basement and it has been wonderful.
Alpine Puzzle |
William dancing |
Robin |
We spent 3 days building a 1000 piece Alpine puzzle. We played a lot of Go Fish, Old Maid, board games, Lego Chess, four square outside, watched the grand kids sing and dance, went on walks around the block, watched the birds in the Spring, helped with yard work and installed a new bathroom floor.
We have had time to continue our scripture studies, Come Follow Me, and also continue studying and preparing for General Conference on April 4-5. We are so grateful for the council from our Prophet, President Nelson in these past few weeks. He has asked us to pray and fast on this Sabbath day as a people united together to pray for relief from the physical, emotional and economic effects of this global pandemic.
Elder Ballard said, "Your home is a place you can kneel and pray. You can feel Heavenly Father's Spirit and you can feel the hand of the Lord in your life on your knees in your bedroom or wherever you find peace to say your prayers. It doesn't require you to be in the temple to 'be still and know that I am God' (Psalm 46:10) He went on to say with encouragement from those on the other side of the veil awaiting temple work, it won't be long before the temples are up and operating."
He said they are doing what they have to do to protect the missionaries. The steps that are being taken are wise and temporary. We are asking every day, 'What are we going to do and when are we going to do it and how are we going to do it?" We are being led by revelation a step at a time. Do we see the light at the end of the tunnel? Absolutely!
We have been so grateful for technology and to be able to keep in touch with the missionaries we have served with. We look forward to P-day more than ever when they write and send messages. We are thrilled to hear how the work is moving forward in new ways as they teach their friends and neighbors the gospel through technology. More people are listening as we have been forced to "Be Still" We have every reason to have hope and to be happy even during these difficult days. Pres. Ballard said, "Let's be happy and keep going forward and do the best we can, and these circumstances will change." The coming weeks will usher in a spiritual season with general conference, Palm Sunday and Easter. The Lord Jesus Christ loves us with a love beyond our ability to comprehend. The kingdom of God will continue to roll forth.
We do not know what is ahead for us in the coming weeks. We are anxious to return to our home and move forward with whatever the Lord has in store for us. We do not feel it is wise at this time to travel and then have to set up a new household. We are praying for guidance and to know what is best for us at this time. We are grateful for this time with family. We are grateful for the hand of the Lord in our lives at this time. We truly have witnessed miracles as we have exercised faith and through the power of many prayers offered in our behalf. We look forward to the day when we can all gather together again - better for having endured through this trial. We hope to be able to report on our mission in a Church meeting and will let you know when that time comes. Currently it is scheduled for May 31 in Arlington.
This is our final picture of being missionaries before our release. The best of times.
FRIENDS
One day, all of us will get separated
from each other. we will miss our
conversations. Days, months and years will
pass until we rarely see each other.
One day, our children will see our
photos and ask, Who are these people?"
And we will smile with invisible tears and
say, It was with them that I had the
best days of my life."
Until we meet again,
auf wiedersehn
Viel Liebe,
The Grimmett's